The only secret you need to know to catch or keep the man of you dreams.
Are you tired of all the books that tell you they have the secrets to attracting and keeping a mate. Have you tried everything yet you still have trouble in relationships. Well here is the big secret…..

You must quit trying- quit reading all the bs on what you need to do, be. Become or change in order to get a man and keep him. My advice is don’t change anything, be who you are, stop trying so hard, the fact that you are on this website is proof that you are focusing your energy on keeping or catching a man instead of focusing on what brings you happiness in your life. The minute you make that shift and begin to focus on you- guess what happens- so will men, you are no longer needy, you are no longer requiring a man to fulfill you, or bring you happiness you are cultivating it in your own life and men will notice. Your potential boyfriend, boyfriend, fiancé or spouse will instantly find you more attractive because you are cultivating and creating happiness in your own life. You will no longer be seen as you once were. Something magical happens when we get excited about our own life. It turns men on- they like independent, confident, happy women, who don’t NEED them. This is the only secret you need to know., Forget all the other Bull shit. Lose weight, dress nice, learn how to flirt, listen to your man, cling on his every word, admire him apprectiate him, etc. etc. etc. It is all a scam to get women to jump through hoops to please a man- probably advice written by a man. Hell really, have you thought about why you need one in the first place. When you get one, you are always questioning – does he love me, does he find me attractive, is he looking at that other chic- does he think she is prettier than me, will he cheat, why isn’t he being affectionate, did I do something wrong, could I do something better, STOP!!!! Who needs all the stress, quit worrying, focus on yourself even if you already have the man you want sit back and watch your man do back flips to please you. Every other EBOOK out there with all there SECRETS- who needs him this is the only secret you will ever need to know. You may be asking yourself who am I and how do I know this. Well I have been in your shoes. I have read every book on the market, jumped through hoops to get the attention I felt I needed from men, and guess what it wasn’t until I started giving myself that attention that men started to notice me. I am now happily married and I have a man that I love. But guess what he is not the be all and end all of me- he is a great addition but I have a full life that I love with or without him. Who would have thought you don’t have to be a good cook, a perfect housekeeper, or a super model. get the relationships you desire. Just be you, and make yourself happy!